Make Everything OK


On What's So.


What's so is always just what's so. What's so doesn't care what you think, feel, intend or wish; it will not bend. You can be freaked out/driven over what's so, and it won't change what's so. If you're late for an appointment, getting freaked out about it won't have you arrive earlier. If you're having a bad day, being freaked out won't change what's so. That which you seek will not bring you satisfaction - aligning with what's so will. When you're upset, you're never upset over what's so. What's so is just what's so, and you're upset.

If your house burns down and you get upset, does it bring your house back? What's so doesn't care if you're upset; it's up to you how you handle what's so. There is no confusion in what's so. When you don't know you just don't know - there's no confusion there. There's nothing right or wrong about what's so. What's so is always open to different interpretations. There's always just what's so, and then you have an interpretation. What scares you isn't what's so, it's your interpretation. The interpretation is never true; what's so is real, the interpretation is not. Who you're being is just who you're being, and what's so doesn't care if you're happy with it or not, so why should you? When you're not being with what's so, that's also just what's so. Why should you concern yourself? Other people should always be the way they're being; if you think they shouldn't, that's your interpretation. Bring yourself back to what's so about them. Until you can be with what's so you can't be with anything or anyone. You may have control over other people what's so, but none over their interpretation - give it up.

If you take action or not, it's still just what's so. If it works out well or not, it's still just what's so. You can never make a right or wrong decision, or take a right or wrong action. Whatever you do will always bring you more of what's so, and then you have an interpretation about it. Whatever you don't have, so what? Whatever you're done or thought in the past, again what's so. Whatever happens in the future is not to be feared, it's just going to be more of what's so. The challenge is to spend as much time in what's so as you can. The chatter in your head is more interpretation, and it has nothing to do with what's so. There's nothing wrong with the chatter, it's just you listening to a fantasy. The thought that there is something wrong is an illusion; there is nothing wrong, there is only what's so. Notice when you're comparing what's so to some fantasy of how it should be. Bring yourself back to what's so and it will be O.K. Ask yourself what's so, and align with that. Align with what's so and it will not matter. That is the foundation of transformation and satisfaction. Not aligning with what's so is the only thing that will ever bring you hardship. Life in what's so bring you harmony, grace and balance. Ask yourself what's so about your situation?

Living life from what's so, everything is OK. If not, make it OK.


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Joeban Machiel. Life Enthusiast. Possibilizer. Coach.

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